Prioritizing yourself is not selfish—it’s self-care. For many mothers, the journey of pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding is one of the most rewarding experiences in life. However, for many mothers, it also dramatically changes the body—stretching the abdominal muscles, altering breast shape and size, and affecting overall confidence. Many women considering a Mommy Makeover ask themselves: “Am I selfish for wanting this?” The short answer? Absolutely not.
At Ridha Plastic Surgery & Medspa in Saratoga, we believe that taking care of yourself is not selfish—it’s an act of self-care and empowerment.
Why Do Women Feel Guilty About Cosmetic Surgery?
Society often places unrealistic expectations on mothers. There’s an unspoken belief that mothers should sacrifice their needs for their families, putting self-care on the back burner. This concept has not served mothers well. But here’s the truth:
- Feeling good about yourself positively affects your confidence, relationships, and mental well-being.
- Prioritizing your happiness does not detract from your ability to care for others—it enhances it!
- You deserve to feel comfortable and confident in your own skin, just as much as anyone else.
A Mommy Makeover is not about chasing perfection. It is about reclaiming your body after the changes of motherhood, so you feel positive, empowered, and restored.
What is a Mommy Makeover?
A Mommy Makeover is a customized combination of procedures to restore a firm, lifted look of your pre-baby body—or even improve on what nature provided. It typically involves several restorative surgeries:
- Tummy Tuck (Abdominoplasty): Repairs stretched abdominal muscles and removes excess skin.
- Breast Surgery: This can include augmentation, a breast lift, or reduction to restore shape and balance.
- Liposuction: Sculpts and refines areas resistant to diet and exercise.
- Other Physical Enhancements: These could include body contouring, skin tightening, or non-surgical rejuvenation.
Each Mommy Makeover at Ridha Plastic Surgery & Medspa is a custom procedure planned to match your body and goals. Dr. Ridha takes the time to listen to your concerns and create a treatment plan tailored specifically for you.
Can a Mommy Makeover Be Done in One Surgery?
Many women wonder whether their Mommy Makeover can be performed in one surgical session or needs to be staged over multiple procedures. The answer depends on the extent of the procedures, your overall health, and surgical safety considerations.
If you are undergoing a tummy tuck, breast surgery, and liposuction, it is often possible to combine these procedures into one comprehensive surgery to reduce overall downtime. For more extensive makeovers, including multiple areas of liposuction and extensive body contouring, our surgeon may recommend staging the procedures to ensure optimal healing and safety. Dr. Ridha will evaluate your health, goals, and recovery needs to determine the best approach for your transformation.
Is It Okay to Want This for Myself?
Many mothers feel conflicted about investing in themselves. But ask yourself: Would you question someone for getting braces, fixing an injury, or caring for their skin? Would you encourage a friend to do something that makes them feel more confident and comfortable in their own body? The same logic applies here. Taking control of your body and self-image is your choice—and you shouldn’t feel guilty for making it.
Mommy Makeover: A Gift to Yourself
If pregnancy and motherhood have changed your body in ways that make you feel uncomfortable or self-conscious, a Mommy Makeover is a way to honor yourself and celebrate the strength of your body.
At Ridha Plastic Surgery & Medspa, Dr. Ridha provides a compassionate, patient-centric experience, approaching every procedure with understanding, trust, and top-tier surgical skills.
So, are you selfish for wanting a Mommy Makeover? No. You are choosing to invest in yourself—and that’s one of the most powerful decisions you can make.
Ready to Explore Your Options?
Schedule a private consultation with Dr. Ridha today and take the first step toward feeling like yourself again.